If good looks and good sex is all, you have going for yourself as
your primary bait, it will prove entertaining in the short term but not enough
to go home to meet mama. ~Whistle Britches
If you want a rich, handsome, well-educated, powerful fish and you
are neither; what would make them want you?
What is in it for them to be the fish you catch?
Building
relationships that work requires intentional and intense desire, information, a
strategic plan, and commitment. The goal of all relationships, spoken or
unspoken, is about getting what we want from other people willing to give it to
us.
The path to
getting what we want is in making the right deal with the right person who
possesses what we want. For relationships to be functional, activity mutually
agreed to must hold the potential to provide participants the experience of
getting what each wants.
Your fish must
believe it is in his best interests not just to be with you in the now but also
to be with you for the long haul. Your
fish has to believe his conditions are better with you than without you. It is your task to make sure you keep your
fish knowing that.
Successfully
accomplish this by being secure in your own maturity and development. Give to your fish from all of yourself what
your fish wants and believes he needs to feel good about who he is and desires
to be and become.
Offer yourself in
such a way that he cannot think of himself without being thankful for all you
give him of yourself. When you do, he
will be pleased to be your fish every night when he goes to sleep and every
morning when he wakes up. You will have
touched the fish you caught at the soul level.
Here is what others have said about Fishers:
- This is a great book. It comes with questions to ask yourself and to ponder and focus on the person you are, or who you want to be. Most of us tend to focus on the opposite and it is important to know what you can bring to the table. (Firaoddo)
- I think this book is successful in helping women know how to catch a husband who is a keeper. (Matson)
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