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Thursday, April 17, 2014
FISHERS SALES REFERRAL CONTEST
Wednesday, April 16, 2014
Fishers of Men - Excerpt from the Queen Kimela Report - Listen Up Ladies to Your Intuition
Red Flags Can Be Hazardous to Emotional Health
Relationship red flags to me are anything that you feel uncomfortable. I have a girlfriend who married her best friend, knowing that she had some uncomfortable feelings about him being secretly gay. I told her many times not to marry him. I told her that he was gay, that he was not right for her, and she knew it.
She married him anyway. Two years, and one child later, he came dancing out of the closet she had forced him into. As women, we have strong intuition. We just choose to ignore it. When people come to me to ask questions, usually they already know the answer. They just want confirmation from an outside source.
Stop doing that. Trust the source of your intuition. The question is usually the answer. It is that simple.
I needed a person who could totally understand and love all of my personalities. I needed a person, who I could dream with and accomplish things. I needed a husband who would not be jealous because I am a very outgoing, creative and sensual.
I love to laugh. He certainly had to have a sense of humor. I love to write. He certainly had to love literature and poetry. I value education. He had to value it too.
Family is very important. He had to have a strong sense of family. I laid all of my cards on the table before I got married. I required him to do the very same thing. We looked at what we had, and decided to take a chance. We have been together now for almost seventeen years. I still feel like I just met him yesterday because we bring out new and exciting things in each other all the time.
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Wednesday, April 9, 2014
FISHERS OF MEN UPDATE and CONTEST ANNOUNCEMENT
I decided to publish now because I know thousands of women across the global village struggling with relationships histories that have left many scars and little hope. As a result of the consistent experience, I have consulted hundreds of women to learn their stories of what has worked and what has not. It can be incredibly demoralizing to have relationship after relationship end in heartbreak, despair and the fear of hopelessness. It is my high hope that Fishers of Men will help women discover personal plans to and achieve fulfilling relationships and the soul satisfaction of love. Relationships that have not become all we dreamed they might have become can prove to be opportunities for learning and the development of self – awareness becoming clear about what is wanted and what is unacceptable.
Fishers Sales Referral Contest
Win $85 in gift cards, signed paperback editions, eBook editions, and Bonus Material. Rules are simple. First Prize - $50 Gift Card Second Prize - $25 Third Prize $10 4th and 5th Prize each receive signed paperback edition. The rules follow:- Contest begins at 12:00 A.M., Monday, April 14th.
- Become an affiliate at Payloadz, the Online Store selling Fishers.
- At the right hand corner of the page, share with your Facebook, Google +, and Twitters followers. This makes you an affiliate.
- Five (5) sales referrals listed to your affiliate links qualifies your eligibility to win. That is where point counting starts. Daily point totals reported to all participants.
- Every sale referral above five (5) equals 1 point. The person with the most points by 11:59 P.M. April 28th will be declared with the winner. In the event of ties of two or more persons, gift card amount for first two or three places will be equally shared.
- This kicker applies. Every sales referral made earns 99 cents per sale to the affiliate. The same applies after the contest is over. Every sales referral made earns 99 cents.
For More Information
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Saturday, March 29, 2014
Fishers of Men - Affiliates Update - What We Sow Together, We Grow Together.
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What we sow together, we grow together.
Single women across Planet Earth responding to their
biological prompts to dating and mating do so with varying degrees of success.
Fishing serves as metaphor for, Fishers of Men, speaking to single women looking for
husbands in the 21st Century. Women across the Earth are fishing for husbands in vast
networks and waters full of men by ethnic group, color, culture, class, education, religion,
and political affiliation with limited success.
Fishers of Men offers an approach to fishing that will enhance the probability of knowing
the difference between the keeper and the little ones to throw back. Also included are real
stories of real women’s dating and mating triumphs and tragedies
Fishers of Men – What Single Women Should Know about When Looking for Husbands is
collaboration between the author and 30 women from Ireland, the Philippines, and the
Friday, March 28, 2014
The Contributors to Fishers of Men
In my travels to many places across the Earth, I experienced
the privilege to meet many women from young adults to senior adults. Many have become great friends over time in
person or online. With some, love has been shared from the Philippines, Japan,
Korea, and India in Asia; to Canada, the United Kingdom, Greece, France, the U.S. in the west; and South Africa.
Many have told me their stories of love and relationship,
their agonies and their ecstasies. I have listened, learned, and continued to
make new friends and build new relationships with women for more than forty
years. Women have taught me much about
what women and men need to know about each other to build successful
relationships.
It is my privilege to introduce to you and share with you the
work of friends in Real Stories Real Women. Exceptional women from the
Philippines to Ireland share their hearts and stories. You have them now. Let
them speak to you. Let them bless you.
They are real people and include:
1.
Actors
2. Bloggers
3. Ph.D.’s
4. Broadcasters
5. Speakers
6. Writers
7. Social workers
8. Teachers
9. Ministers
10. Community Organizers
11. Medical Professionals
12. Students
13. Accountants
14. Retirees
15. Artists
16. Customer Service
2. Bloggers
3. Ph.D.’s
4. Broadcasters
5. Speakers
6. Writers
7. Social workers
8. Teachers
9. Ministers
10. Community Organizers
11. Medical Professionals
12. Students
13. Accountants
14. Retirees
15. Artists
16. Customer Service
Married, divorced, single, and widowed; they are real women
with real stories. Enjoy them. Feel them. Learn from them. They have learned
love and relationships. Their stories help other women and men have better
opportunities for successful relationships. Let them help you.
A great Fisher of Men once thought me worth of being the
keeper. What has followed has been the best twenty- seven years of my
life. I am a blessed man.
Oscar Crawford
Thursday, March 27, 2014
Fishers of Men is NOW AVAILABLE
Chandler, AZ – March 27,
2014 Single women across Planet Earth responding to
their biological prompts to dating and mating do so with varying degrees of
success.
Fishing serves as metaphor for, Fishers
of Men, speaking to single women looking for husbands in the 21st
Century. Women across the Earth are
fishing for husbands in vast networks and waters full of men by ethnic group,
color, culture, class, education, religion, and political affiliation with
limited success.
Fishers of Men
offers an approach to fishing that will enhance the probability of knowing the
difference between the keeper and the little ones to throw back. Also included
are real stories of real women’s dating and mating triumphs and tragedies.
Fishers of Men – What Single Women Should Know about
When Looking for Husbands is a collaboration between the author and 30 women
from Ireland, the Philippines, and the United States. For more information:
contact oscarcrawfordmedia@gmail.com; and at
602-413-8942.
Monday, March 10, 2014
For Immediate Press Release
For Immediate Release
Contact: Oscar
Crawford
Phone: 602 - 413 - 8942
Email: oscarcrawfordmedia@gmail.com
FISHERS OF MEN
What Single Women Need to Know About Looking for Husbands
Chandler, AZ – March
10, 2014 Single women across Planet Earth responding to
their biological prompts to dating and mating do so with varying degrees of
success.
Fishing serves as metaphor for, Fishers
of Men, speaking to single women looking for husbands in the 21st
Century. Women across the Earth are
fishing for husbands in vast networks and waters full of men by ethnic group,
color, culture, class, education, religion, and political affiliation with
limited success.
Fishers of Men
offers an approach to fishing that will enhance the probability of knowing the
difference between the keeper and the little ones to throw back. Also included
are real stories of real women’s dating and mating triumphs and tragedies.
The release date of Fishers of Men’s is scheduled
for March 27.It is available in eBook. Pre – Order at http://whatsinglewomenneedtoknow.blogspot.com/
Fishers of Men – What Single Women Need to Know
About Searching for Husbands is a collaboration between the author and 30 women
from Ireland, the Philippines, and the United States. For more information:
contact oscarcrawfordmedia@gmail.com; and at
602-413-8942.
Saturday, March 8, 2014
Getting What You Want - Excerpt from Fishes of Men, Chapter Three
If good looks and good sex is all, you have going for yourself as
your primary bait, it will prove entertaining in the short term but not enough
to go home to meet mama. ~Whistle Britches
If you want a rich, handsome, well-educated, powerful fish and you
are neither; what would make them want you?
What is in it for them to be the fish you catch?
Building
relationships that work requires intentional and intense desire, information, a
strategic plan, and commitment. The goal of all relationships, spoken or
unspoken, is about getting what we want from other people willing to give it to
us.
The path to
getting what we want is in making the right deal with the right person who
possesses what we want. For relationships to be functional, activity mutually
agreed to must hold the potential to provide participants the experience of
getting what each wants.
Your fish must
believe it is in his best interests not just to be with you in the now but also
to be with you for the long haul. Your
fish has to believe his conditions are better with you than without you. It is your task to make sure you keep your
fish knowing that.
Successfully
accomplish this by being secure in your own maturity and development. Give to your fish from all of yourself what
your fish wants and believes he needs to feel good about who he is and desires
to be and become.
Offer yourself in
such a way that he cannot think of himself without being thankful for all you
give him of yourself. When you do, he
will be pleased to be your fish every night when he goes to sleep and every
morning when he wakes up. You will have
touched the fish you caught at the soul level.
Here is what others have said about Fishers:
- This is a great book. It comes with questions to ask yourself and to ponder and focus on the person you are, or who you want to be. Most of us tend to focus on the opposite and it is important to know what you can bring to the table. (Firaoddo)
- I think this book is successful in helping women know how to catch a husband who is a keeper. (Matson)
Pre - Order Now at http://ow.ly/ugJjv
Wednesday, March 5, 2014
Fishers of Men, the 2nd Edition, March 27
25 contributors from the Philippines, Ireland, the U.S., and author Oscar Crawford present the 2nd Edition of Fishers of Men - What Single Women Should Know About Looking for Husbands. Included are real stories from women plus detailed strategies for fishing for men. Learn the difference between the keepers and the little ones to throw back. Available NOW for eBook Pre - Order and delivery on March 27.
What Others Said about the 1st Edition of Fishers of Men on Amazon:
- I really liked the framework of the book, using the analogy of fishing to metaphorically describe a healthy approach to dating. It used the metaphor in several aspects and gave very solid tips and reassuring advice along the trip. Easy to read, even easier to understand. (Joseph C)
- Teaching women how to 'fish' for men is the theme here and although that sounds a little controlling, nothing could be further from the truth. Finding out about your own needs and habits as well as those of the 'fish' is a major part of the teaching.Recommend this to the younger generation as well as those jumping back into the dating game at a riper age. (Rowena)
- This is a great book. It comes with questions to ask yourself and to ponder and focus on the person you are, or who you want to be. Most of us tend to focus on the opposite and it is important to know what you can bring to the table. (Firaoddo)
- This author obviously really cares about women. This comes across so strongly throughout. He offers really sound advice to enable women to make the best possible choices in their search for a mate, and for happiness. Really well researched and knowledgeable this is a really insightful text. (EclecticReader)
- If you are a person of faith and an older woman this book might be for you. There are true nuggets in the book that will be helpful in looking for a certain type of man. It is always fascinating hearing the man's point of view - it's a good perspective to understand. (RuthS)
- First of all I am a man, so this book is not written for me, but I do have daughters that of the age that they are looking for husbands, so I read this book from that perspective. This book uses the analogy of fishing to discuss the process of finding a suitable husband. It has interviews of many women who share their experiences. I think this book is successful in helping women know how to catch a husband who is a keeper. (Matson)
Fishers of Men – What Single Women Should Know About Looking
for Husbands
The 2nd Edition of Fishers of Men will be
available in eBook format in 22 days.
Pre - Order the eBook before March 27 for 2.99.
Audiobook will be
available April 24. Pre – Order the digital download of the Audiobook for 4.99.
Monday, February 24, 2014
2nd Edition of Fishers of Men Scheduled for Release March 27, 2014
“Fishers of Men” is
born out of women’s experience of individual and shared trust, hopes, and
dreams. For more than four decades, women have been sharing their stories with
me. Because of what I once wondered, “Why me,” I have developed an enhanced
appreciation for the will of women never to give up or to give in, even when
giving up might be the better and more productive option.
Women are now and always have been primary to my life. I am
born the son of super women surviving the ravages of the segregated south of
Jim Crow, and my fathers, who more often than not thought themselves privileged
as did other men in some sick perception of being lords by right and power to
have rule over women. These conditions are unjust and their influences lingers.
Women’s stories appear to have been the same since the
arrival of our prehistoric ancestors on Earth to the contemporary NOW. Women’s
early roller coaster life experience too often brings painful, post-traumatic
stress generating events of sexual violence. These events can affect women’s
self - perception and relationships for more than 20 years before seeking help
to resolve their personal and collective pain. Strip clubs and venues of
commercial sex work populate with women struggling to find themselves and their
identities while seeking ways to resolve their personal and collective pain.
From getting their periods in early adolescence and
associated pain, to engaging males, to falling in love, to the disappointment
of love, and to engaging boys; girls and women can know life as one challenging
experience or rite of passage after another. Part and parcel to these rites of
passage include the horrors and the joys of sex, to their 20s, to dating, to
men, to mating, to marrying, and procreating.
It does not stop. On to their 30s come divorces, more men, abortions
or adoptions, more divorces, tubal ligations, hysterectomies, into their late
40s and onset menopause. Occasionally, I wondered whether a sign tattooed on my
forehead said, “There he is. He is the one. Tell him. Tell him your story. You
can trust him to help you bear your pain.”
In the midst of women’s whirlwind life experiences of both
pain and joy, women seek to honor their biological prompts to mating. For many,
the notion of mating and marrying for happily ever after seems bleak but no
quitting. The search goes on and the trial and error of unsuccessful
relationships may slow women but does not stop them. Hope lives eternal in the hearts
of women.
Reserve your copy of the ebook, paperback, or audiobook at oscarcrawfordmedia@gmail.com
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